Take a deep breath and for a minute forget about all the craziness that surrounds us.
Good advice ... that at times can be hard to follow. I am not going to lie ... in the past few weeks I have had some challenging days as I am sure all of you have also experienced.
Days when watching the national news moves me to tears.
Days when hearing about family and friends' financial and health struggles builds up my fears.
Days when I can only lift up in prayer those whom I wish I could hold near!
And days when having to ''stay at home'' is quite a challenge ... even with the one whom I (most of the time) call ''Dear''.
As I am sure some of you have discovered, it is difficult being an extrovert in the midst of our current ''stay at home'' situation. I want to meet up with old friends, help out those facing difficult times, and generally just ''get out'' a couple of times a day. My introverted ''amor'' is very content to follow the rules and stay put. After a few not-so-good days, we figured out that we each have to compromise a little and support each other in order for both of us to find our calm in the midst of this quarantine.
While none of us are experts on how to survive during crazy times like this, I would like to share some of the ways that we are working to support each other during this ''stay at home'' time ... activities that can support and recharge both our introvert and extrovert personalities.
Daily walks are vital! We are fortunate to be close to a nice walking path. While this path can be very busy at times, making ''social distancing'' a challenge, we have found that late morning and just before sunset offers the perfect time for avoiding crowds while taking in amazing displays of color and nature. And if I am REALLY lucky, we sometimes run into a friend out for a walk or run, and I can enjoy a brief face to face visit ... 6 feet apart.
There have been a few warm days that convince us that biking season is coming. Riding our bikes on the quiet country roads and up a few of the hills in the area is a perfect way to tire this crazy woman out so that her introvert hubby can enjoy peace and quiet for an hour or two after we get back home.
Recharging our spirituality is also important during difficult times like this. We are truly grateful that our home parish is video streaming daily and Sunday Masses complete with a small choir that is ''socially distanced'' yet in perfect harmony.
With restaurants closed, making meals in our apartment kitchen keeps this ''busy beaver'' happy! Armed with my basket of spices, I have all I need to cook up Doug's favorite comfort foods with a little added ''kick''. Cooking has always been a very calming activity for me (or maybe it is the ''cooking'' wine that calms me??!!), and Doug is more than happy to reap the benefits of this ''therapy''.
Studying Spanish, texting with friends, blogging, doing online continuing nursing education programs, and following the news developments (in moderation) is keeping this crazy extrovert busy while her introvert husband rests up for our next walk or bike ride. Some days seem long, and there are still sad moments and many unknowns, but working together, we will find the calm in the midst of this quarantine ...
... and signs of love everywhere we look!
Stay Safe and Stay Happy as you
Stay Home!
We would love to hear what you are doing to maintain the calm in your lives during these challenging times.
From Doug ...
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